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    افتراضي The true about women in Islam,by, Bent al-Hasan

    Prophet Mohammed was an honorable,one of the begst family in Quraish"country of prophet he was an orphan , his grand father who look after him then his uncle, the child MOHAMMED asked his uncle to let him to get awork to help his uncle.look ,how he was a senstive and feel with others and evrey one in Quraish was respect him and loved him .they called him the honest and the veracious
    " look who was Mohammed even befor he becoms a prophet".
    when khadija bent khowailed -buseness women-knowed about Mohamed ,she asked him to becom asupervisor on her trade,she offered to give him the double of what she gaved the others and Mohammed accepted " so as you see he is already becomes a rich".khadeja 's trade get inincreasing due to honesity of Mohammed.
    khadeja found that how Mohammed is agood and honest man ,so she wanted to marry him .khadija was wanted from every one ,to marry her, but she chosed Mohammed.she asked her friend Nafesa bent Monbeh to aske Mohammed if he want to get married or not?"and so Nafisa who offer to Mohammed to marry Khadija ,and he accepted , khadija was not be refused"she was an honrabl
    ,wise ,beateful women"
    prophet Mohmmed loved khadija "om el moamenen" alot. look, he said that ALLAH never gives him who is better than khadija .prophet was rememberring her even after her death . he always sent the gifts for her friends and her family . if prophet married khadija -as you said - for his money , why he always remembered her even Ayesha said that she never becam ajealous from awoman "prophet's wives" as khadija ...prophet realy loved khadija.
    prophet did not search for a luxurial life
    look ,prophet was spending his money to the needy and poors , he just gave his family the little of money by which they buy only food makes thier a life.who can do that-spend his money on needy all the time-. prophet's wives said alot, that they need more , but look what he said , prophet told them that he can not do that because the poors still in need. look how prophet was a kindfull man.
    but his wifes still ask him to do. do you khnow what prophet did !?prophet prefared to stay far from his wives for a month. till averse came from Allah and told him to give his wives the choice "if they want this life, so prophet could devorce thier,and they could enjoy thler life or they want Allah and his massenger"but they chose Allah and his messenger.33/28. O Prophet! Say to thy Consorts: "If it be that ye desire the life of this World, and its glitter,- then come! I will provide for your enjoyment and set you free in a handsome manner.
    33/29. But if ye seek Allah and His Messenger, and the Home of the Hereafter, verily Allah has prepared for the well-doers amongst you a great reward.

    I toled this story to know how prophet was akind man with the needy and how he was treating his wives kindly even they were diffrent with him in thier openion, he just let thier alone to think clearly in that object. then he gave them the choice freely as Allah told him.
    when MOHAMMED ."may peace be upon him" became aprophet he suffer from the bad treatment f Quraish , but his wife was support him all the time .
    after khadija's death prophet traveled to ELMADENA and he found that alot of moslims waited for him . they want to know every doing prophet do .so prophet had to learn active studentsto becom aguid for the people after him.these students were his fllowers and prophet's wives whom trans the private life of prophet and prophet saying-for moslims- that learn the half of their faith fro m 'Ayesha.look, awomen who could learn moslims the half of their faith. look how women is imprtant .so for each prophet's marrage acertain cause but not as you said . that's enough to say that it was forbidden for prophet to marry others or devorce his wives.from these wives who is young &the other is more elderly . .
    about prophet's marriage of Ayesha "om el moamenen " ,
    prophet(may peace be up on him) engage Ayesha when she was 6 y . but she was egaged to Gubeer B Motteam.befor prophet.that shows that early marriage of femal was allawed . but when prophet married Ayesha she was 9 y &she becam an adult female -reached puperty -as females in these countries reach puperty earlier due to the enviromental factors.and this young age of Aeysha give her the chance to learn more and more from prophet . and she lived for along time after prophet 's death so she was agood referance for moslims for along time.
    about prophet's marriage of Zaynabe "om el moamenen"
    Zaynabe bent Ghahish is the prophet's cousin ,& prophet who married her to Zayed. zayed was prophet's slave but prophet considered him as his son because Zayed was loving prophet so much and people call Zayed as "Zayed ben MOHAMMED"but acttually he did not.
    this verse of holy Quran say" 33/40

    Muhammad is not the father of any of your men but (he is) the Apostle of Allah and the Seal of the Prophets: and Allah has full knowledge of all things
    when Zaynabe get married from Zayed , she was conseder that she is better than Zayed because she was from great family ,she was remembering Zayed by that. but Zayed get upset of that . and he wanted to divorce her &prophet advice him not to do that. this verse tell us about what has happend.
    "holy Quran(33/ 37)Behold! thou didst say to one who had received the grace of Allah and thy favor: "Retain thou (in wedlock) thy wife and fear Allah." But thou didst hide in thy heart that which Allah was about to make manifest: thou didst fear the people but it is more fitting that thou shouldst fear Allah. Then when Zaid had dissolved (his marriage) with her with the necessary (formality) We joined her in marriage to thee: in order that (in future) there may be no difficulty to the Believers in (the matter of) marriage with the wives of their adopted sons when the latter have dissolved with the necessary (formality) (their marriage) with them: and Allah's command must be fulfilled"
    so the prophet's marriage of Zaynabe was in order that (in future) there may be no difficulty to the Believers in (the matter of) marriage with the wives of their adopted sons when the latter have dissolved with the necessary (formality) (their marriage) with them.
    may you mind the cause of this pophet's mariage,when you read this verse"holy Quran
    (33/5)Call them(a dopted sons) by (the names) of their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah but if ye know not their father's (names call them) your Brothers in faith or your Maulas. But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning Most Merciful

    Quotes from the "Holy" Quran on Women .
    The Holy Qur'an farther points out that sexual gratification in the married life is not meant only for the satisfaction of the physical lust, but it mustbe directed to some higher ends." Your women are tilth for you, so go into your tilth as ye like, and provide beforehand for your souls, and fear Allah and know that you are going to meet Him" (ii. 223). Here the wives are likened to the cultivable land which are ploughed for sowing and reaping the produce (in the form of offspring) and not merely for carnal indulgence. The concluding part of the verse refers to still higher and sublimer ends which tell that even in the height of carnal pleasures the moral and spiritual responsibilities should not in any way be lost sight of; rather one should be more conscious to them when one is enjoying physical pleasures as these are the moments when the fear of the Lord and the accountability in the Hereafter is likely to be
    blurred or effaced from one's mind .

    look what this verse says"II/195,And their Lord hath accepted of them and answered them: "Never will I suffer to be lost the work of any of you be he male or female: ye are members one of another.
    you said (IV/34: Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other.. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them."
    the verse not as you translate it but Quran says"IV /34)Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has given the one more than the other and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct admonish them (first) (next) refuse to share their beds (and last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience seek not against them means (of annoyance): for Allah is Most High Great (above you all)
    Did you know that muscles ' bulk of man more than that of women . could you deny that the science proved that "what determine embereo'sex is what recived from the father (as some sexual cells of male has chromosomeY&the others have chromsomeX but female' sexual cells have only one type "chromosome X".for embreo' sex is determin he must recive one chromosome frome father and the other from mother &so if embereo recived (X,from mother, &Yfrom father , it wll be a male )&if it recived (Xfrom mother &Xfrome father ,it will be afemale)
    as you see that Ychromosome has its respect even inside the cell.the cell must form male sexual organ as it recived the order from Y chromosome.that ' s one mean of the verse said that"Allah has gevin the one"man" more than the other "women"
    Also you see in this verse ""man"support them"women" from their means,so man who must look after women &brings her needs&islam never treat the female as inferior and man is the superior as you ."
    you see women is from man &man is from women
    that's not evrey thing "(IV/19)O ye who believe! ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing; and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good
    look how Islam is the safty for women.
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- IV/15: (For women) If any one of your women is guilty of lewdness ...confine them until death claims them. ,
    confine them to houses until death do claim them "mean prison them in house for the life long not mean kill them or death as you said.
    you translated the verse as "IV/15: (For Men) If two men among you commit indecency (sodomy) punish them both. If they repent and mend their ways, let them be. Allah is forgiving and merciful.
    but the verse says .
    IV/16)If two among you are guilty of lewdness punish them both. If they repent and amend leave them alone; for Allah is Oft-returning Most Merciful
    as you see the verse didn't determine who are that two, they may by mean two man or may be mean a man and a woman of whom have no partener"
    & the verse didn't say "let them be "but it says"leave them alone"see they becoms lonly after punishment , the after these verses(IV/15,16), it beocms other verse to change both of these judgment,see
    XXIV/2)The woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication flog each of them with a hundred stripes: let not compassion move you in their case in a matter prescribed by Allah if ye believe in Allah and the Last Day: and let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.
    & to you know , the punishment of sodomy in Islam is the death.
    you trranslate XXIV/6,7: As for those who accuse their wives but have no witnesses except themselves , let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies..
    but you didn't complete the verse as you try to hide the true , i 'ii just complete what you hidden &complete the next verses which complete the mean.
    (XXIV/6)And for those who launch a charge against their spouses and have (in support) no evidence but their own their solitary evidence (can be received) if they bear witness four times (with an oath) by Allah that they" are solemnly telling the truth

    (XXIV/7)And the fifth (oath) (should be) that they solemnly invoke the curse of Allah on themselves if they tell a lie
    (XXIV/8)But it would avert the punishment from the wife if she bears witness four times (with an oath) by Allah that (her husband) is telling a lie

    (XXIV/9)And the fifth (oath) should be that she solemnly invokes the wrath of Allah on herself if (her accuser) is telling the truth
    you said"Here we see, that a husband can easily accuse his wife (or wives) and eventually sentence her to death by merely declaring four times that the accusation is true. but you didnt mention that it would avert the punishment from the wife if she bears witness four times (with an oath) by Allah that (her husband) is telling a lie. " may you now change your mind. .------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quotes from Hadith TIRMZI AND OTHERS
    you wrote "If a woman's conduct is mischievous or immodest, the husband has the right to beat her up but must not break her bones. She must not allow anybody to enter the house if her husband does not like him. She has the right to expect sustenance of her husband. (TR. P 439)
    but you did n't know the event of that hadith ,the moslims men who is came to prophet and complaind of their wives as their wives became cotumacious& unrulied because of that rights which Islam gaved it to prophet allow beating but lightly& you must compleat what happend after that, then women came to prophet' s wives &complain of their husbands , so prophet said to men"there were a lot of women came to Mohamad's wives &complain of their husbands ,who did that are not the best of you"husbands"."
    as you see that mean that beating is the last mean &worst one to deal with the wife. &our holy prophet never beat any of his wives even they made him angry.
    but about that,She must not allow anybody to enter the house if her husband does not like him. that is from respection of her husband' sense.
    you wrote"It is forbidden for a woman to be seen by any man except her husband when she is made up or well-dressed. (TR. P 430)
    BUT, she could make up or well-dressed in presence of her sons ,her father, her uncle,her brothers &her husbad' s father. as all of them is forbidden to marry her.
    Islam never deny that female is beautiful &atractive, but also man love to see that beauty& may even rape it .so Islame dont want that evrey one to see that beauty which may lead to harm the woman . and also in order to make man deal with the women as a human not as a mean of sex &enjoyment.
    who respect your mind"for women", that respect your make-up & thight clothes or who deal with you as a human?!.why you dont ask your self why man dont make-up or dress a short wearing?! because he is a man....!
    in Islam , the wife is make-up &well-dressed for her husband,as well as husband must be well-dressed &be a smart for his wife.
    About you wrote "A woman is not a believer if she undertakes a journey which may last three days or longer, unless she is accompanied by her husband, son, father "
    Islam want the safty for women,in the past .the transport was the camels &in the desert,so it must be who save the women &look after her , so it must be one of who is forbidden to marry her in order to not he becomes 'him self"a dangerous for her.
    you wrote"A woman must veil herself even in the presence of her husband's father, brother and other male relations. (TR. P 432) "
    but A woman must not veil herself in the presence of her husband's father,but she must veil herself in the presence of her husband's brother and other his male relations as they may see her as beautiful and those could fall in love her & many problems will occur & destroy the family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    about you wrote" She is forbidden to spend any money without the permission of her husband, and it includes giving food to the needy or feast to friends. (TR. P 265)
    the money in this hadith mean husband money as he is who has to spend on her &the it's from fairnessto have a permession to spend it."but she does not need that permession to spend it on their realy needs with out overspending.
    but if that money is her money herself , she can spend it as she want-except making Allah angry- with out permession of her husbsnd .
    you wrote "A wife is forbidden to perform extra prayers (NAFAL) or observe fasting (other than RAMADAN) without the permission of her husband. (TR. P 300)
    BUT"A wife is forbidden to perform extra prayers (NAFAL) or observe fasting (other than RAMADAN) her husband except she has a permission of her husband. (TR. P 300)
    as i told you in presence of her husband ,as may husband need her for sexual intercourse and that's of his rights,you know that he may be can not wait,in the same time it's forbidden to go to a prostitute . so wife must keep her husband as honourable
    And Allah will recompense her about that.
    about"If prostration were a legitimate act other than to God, woman should have prostrated to her husband. (TR. P 428)
    as prophet said what mean that more prostoration to Allah mean more nearer to him. who becomes nearer to Allah, so Allah loves him &gives him what he want. prostoration mean also dutiful.No prostoration except for Allah,but dutiful. so if women does her duties towards her husband she will becoms nearer to her husbad more and more,so husband will do his best to please her wife& gives her what she want.
    as you see in that haditth , prophet gave the women the key of her husband's heart.
    If a man is in a mood to have sexual intercourse the woman must come immediately even if she is baking bread at a communal oven. (TR. P 428)
    that because,you know that he may can not wait,in the same time it's forbidden to(man) go to a prostitute . so wife must keep her husband as honourable .And Allah will recompense her about that.
    you worte"The marriage of a woman to her man is not substantive. It is precarious. For example if the father of the husband orders his son to divorce his wife, he must do so. (TR. P 440)
    that' s not true.The marriage of a woman to her man is verey substantive see "holy Quran (IV/19).........."for men"on the contrary live with them "their wives" on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing; and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good
    so even man take adislike of his wife, ALLAH advice man to becom a patient.but about that hadith it was in a certain event that Omar"great follower to prophet"asked his son to divorce his wife &prophet accepted that as Omar is good judicious&wise man , &every moslim knows that no one like Omar.
    so as you see ,it's not right for every father but for only who is a good man ,good judeger, wise .and do what God loves.."like Omar". but every moslim knows that no one like Omar.
    you said "A woman who seeks KHULA i.e. divorce from her man, without a just cause, shall not enter paradise. (TR. P 440)
    On the contrary, a husband can divorce his wife at will.
    you must be understaned that hadith wrongly .
    I 'll just mention that hadith to reply what you said "SAHIH MUSLIM,P 627" about KHULA ,thatTHabit 's wife came to prophet &said "O ,Apostle of Allah, that Thabit B Qice , i see him agood man in both ethics &faith, but i heat him &i'm fear that i can not give him his rights ,"so prophet said "do you return his garden to him"she said "yes" so prophet said to Thabit "take the garden &divorce her one " as you see that was easly to this women to be divorced when she found herself unable to live with her husband or to give him his rights,she only return the garden "that garden was given by Thabit to her to marry her as what's called in Islam(MAHER ) . That Maher must be given to the women to be get married.
    you said"Majority of women would go to hell. (Muslim P 1431)
    BUT hadith said " "The majority of those who entered the fire were women."
    and it's great differance betewen both.
    but,look what this verse says"II/195,And their Lord hath accepted of them and answered them: "Never will I suffer to be lost the work of any of you be he male or female: ye are members one of another.."that is the base in Islam.
    Later , i' ll discuss that hadith.

    you wrote that "If a woman refuses to come to bed when invited by her husband, she becomes the target of the curses of angles. Exactly the same happens if she deserts her husband's bed. (Bokhari P 93)
    that 's OK.she should do that to save her husband from guilty of adultery , but if she was ill or sad or somthing like this , ther 's no blame
    . you see prophet didn 't say rape her, as in Islame no violence with women .
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- you wrote "Women who are ungrateful to their men are the denizens of hell; it is an act of ingratitude for a woman to say: "I have never seen any good from you." (Bokhari P 96)
    but i see that you translated hadith from your view because hadith says"prophet said"i was seen the fire , and i found that , The majority of those who entered the fire were women,O , they blaspheme" followers said" O, are they blspheme Allah!?" prophet reply"(blaspheme mean) they deny what husband do for them, deney the goodness,&if you do the best for one of them all the time then you made a thing (mistake),she said:I have never seen any good from you "
    that mean that Allah deos not love who deny the goodness & do not thake the person who do the good for him.
    you said "
    A woman in many ways is deprived of the possession of her own body. Even her milk belongs to her husband. (Bokhari P 27) She is not allowed to practise birth control either
    you are absuletly wrong,"her milk belongs to her husband"mean that husband used to cohabit her own milk. if she feed astrenger baby she will becomes his foster mother,&her husband "the cause of presence of that mik" becoms his foster fother . you see hadith mean that husband is the cause of presence of milk .so this milk is own of both wife &husband. look to this verse of holy Quran" 30: 21:

    And among his signs is this . that he created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them , and he has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect.

    Quotes From Sahih Muslim Hadith

    you wrote that "Chpater 576. The prophet said :"Woman has been created from a rib, and will in no way be straightened for you."
    but i hope if you compleat hadith........compleat hadith is "......&if you want to enjoy with her ,you should enjoy with her as she is ,because if you try to straight it , you will break her . &her breaking mean her divorce "
    i 'd like to aske you . what 's the function of rib? rib's function is protection of vital organ &the most important of these organ is the heart . . to do its function it must be curved . for women , she must protect her husband's heart&life . so she may be soft &coquet with her husband.but may be some men get upset of that. so he try to change that . there are 2 possibility "that women already changed into rigid woman(her husband heat her ) or she can not be change(her husbund already get upset ) "&in both of them man loss his wife &divorce her . so in that hadith prophet learn moslims men how to deal with their wives.
    about you wrote "Chapter 619: Selling a cat, selling a dog (unless it is a working dog), and earning of prostitutes(unless they are non-muslims),... are all forbidden. .
    I just till you that prophet told us about that there is awoman entered the fire because she prisond a cat and not fed it nor let it to becom free to eat from any where else
    &prophet also told us about man entered the paradise becuase he brought water to a thirst dog to drink .but i am agree you that angeles do not enter the house in which there 's a dog .
    but about prostitution it's absolutly the verse of holy Quran says(17/32 ) Nor come nigh to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils).
    .in this verse the Quran instruct muslims(both men &women)to avoid adultery absolutly&believers must be away from even that things which may lead to adultery . because it 's unholy &lead to the worst end.
    and read this verse carfuly"24/33. Let those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah gives them means out of His grace. And if any of your slaves ask for a deed in writing (to enable them to earn their freedom for a certain sum), give them such a deed if ye know any good in them: yea, give them something yourselves out of the means which Allah has given to you. But force not your maids to prostitution when they desire chastity, in order that ye may make a gain in the goods of this life. But if anyone compels them, yet, after such compulsion, is Allah, Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to them),
    Ihope that you knowk that Islam refuse earning of prostitutes( even they are non-muslims),... are all forbidden. .
    In Islam if moslim captivated men &women from land of war itself .they becam as a slave . and if one moslim take awomen as a slave . she becom one of his harem as she is considered as divorced women & she wait for 2 month then she becoms one of that moslims ' harem. &never becoms a prostitute ,she only for that moslim.&if this women &her husband were capitvated both , both of them are still couple &that moslim never get she as one of his harem.
    you said
    The next three verses are related to each other.

    Malik 364:1234 If a woman suckles a baby, she becomes its foster mother and her husband a foster father. If a man has two wives, and one suckles a boy the other a girl, the boy can not marry the girl as the foster father of each is the same.

    The next verse contradicts the previous one.

    Malik 364:1239 The rule pertaining to foster relationship only applies to children under 2 years. Thus (Malik 365:1243) a grown up man fed with the milk of a woman does not entail fostership.

    Read the next verse carefully.

    Malik 365:1245 A man said, "My wife has willfully given my slavegirl with whom I used to cohabit her own milk to drink. What is my relationship to the slave girl ?" Omar said "Punish your wife and go into your slave girl".
    But no contraindication of these verses because that wife who has willfully given her husband' slavegirl with whom he used to cohabit her own milk to drink. was thinking by this way that slavegirl becoms Prohibited to her husband(for marriage) .she was not khnow that her husband never becoms the slavegirl's foster fother .because this girl is adult girl &that foster relationship is only if who suckel milk is under 2 years only .so Omar said " go into your slave girl".because she is an adult "sure more than 2 year".and so she did not becomes his daughter.
    recent sciences proved that if ababy under 2 year suckles milk of strenger women that milk make a change in that baby 's genetic map to becoms has smilarty of genetic mother .if the feds nomber are about 7 times of good quantity &quality..that thing never occurs to who more than that .
    in this early life of baby ,he uses this milke to grow up his body so he become as apart from this women who fed it. .that thing never occurs to who more than that age .he also becoms as a part of husband of that women who is used to cohabit her own milk .that because holy Quran says " 30: 21:

    And among his signs is this . that he created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them , and he has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect

    about you said about Eve's fault & that 18 pains
    The three religions agree on one basic fact : Both women and men are created by God The Creator of the whole universe. However, disagreement starts soon after the creation of the first man, Adam and the first woman, Eve. The Judaeo-Christian conception of the creation of Adam and Eve is narrated in detail in Genesis 2:4-3:24. God prohibited both of them from eating the fruits of the forbidden tree. The serpent seduced Eve to eat from it and Eve, in turn, seduced Adam to eat with her. When God rebuked Adam for what he did, he put all the blame on Eve "The woman you put here with me --she gave me some fruit from the tree and I ate it." Consequently, God said to Eve "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you." To Adam he said,"Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree .... Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life..."

    The Islamic conception of the first creation is found in several places in the Quran, for example 7:19-25 "O Adam dwell with your wife in the garden and enjoy as you wish but approach not this tree or you run into harm. Then Satan whispered to them your Lord only forbade you this tree lest you become angels and he swore to them both that he was their sincere adviser. When they tasted the tree their shame became manifest to them..Their Lord called unto them did I not forbid you that tree...They said: our Lord we have wronged our own souls and if You forgive us not and bestow not upon us Your mercy, we shall certainly be lost..."

    A careful look into the two accounts of the story of the Creation reveals some essential differences. The Quran, contrary to the Bible, places equal blame on both Adam and Eve for their mistake. Nowhere in the Quran can one find even the slightest hint that Eve tempted Adam to eat from the tree or even that she had eaten before him. Eve in the Quran is no temptress, no seducer, and no deceiver. Moreover, Eve isn't to be blamed for the pains of childbearing. God, according to the Quran, punish no one for another's faults. Both Adam and Eve committed a sin and then asked God for forgiveness and He forgave them both.
    But about divorce ,man who has this rhigt ,but woman has the rhight of khula .
    Its great useful for thefamily &for woman herself that divorce by man only as female verey senstive &may take the decission of divorce rapidly if she was angry, so she will destroy the family . then you will find that majority of females are divorced &rarly to find a stable family .so Islam wanted the safty for family &stability.
    Bearing witness

    Another issue in which the Quran and the Bible disagree is the issue of women bearing witness. It is true that the Quran has instructed the believers dealing in financial transactions to get two male witnesses or one male and two females (2:282). However, it is also true that the Quran in other situations accepts the testimony of a woman as equal to that of a man. In fact the woman's testimony can even invalidate the man's. If a man accuses his wife of unchastity, he is required by the Quran to solemnly swear five times as evidence of the wife's guilt. If the wife denies and swears similarly five times, she isn't considered guilty and in either case the marriage is dissolved (24:6-11).

    you said"The fact that men take part in Friday and feast day funerals while women do not."
    but that's not true . Women can share in friday andd she must take part in feast &it's prayer , butabout funerals , she should not present there at "burials- ground".as they may could not hold herselves of crying &shoutting. as they are highly sensetive.but later woman could go to "burials- ground" not to visit certain person but to remmeber the death .
    Female inheritance

    One of the most important differences between the Quran and the Bible is their attitude towards female inheritance of the property of a deceased relative. According to Numbers 27:1-11, widows and sisters don't inherit at all. Daughters can inherit only if their deceased father had no sons. Otherwise the sons receive the entire inheritance. Among the pagan Arabs before Islam, inheritance rights were confined exclusively to the male relatives. The Quran abolished all these unjust customs and gave all the female relatives their just share (4:7,11,12,176).
    and you must know that there are some cases feamale inheritance becomes more than male according to her relationship to that dead. and even she has less than man , that money for herself only ,she never have to spend it on her family .but all the time man how have to spend on his family.
    Th Polygamye
    Quran,allowed polygamy ", but not without restrictions, " If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women of your choice, two or three or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with them, then only one"(4:3). The Quran, Contrary to the Bible, limited the maximum number of wives to four under the strict condition of treating the wives equally and justly. It should not be understood that the Quran is exhorting the believers to practice polygamy, or that polygamy is considered as an ideal. In other words, the Quran has "tolerated" or "allowed" polygamy, and no more, but why? Why is polygamy permissible or allowed? The answer is simple, there are places and times in which there are compelling reasons for polygamy. Islam as a universal religion suitable for all places and all times couldn't ignore these compelling reasons.

    In most human societies, females outnumber males. In the U.S. there are, at least, eight million more women than men. In a country like Guinea there are 122 females for every 100 males. In Tanzania, there are 95.1 males per 100 females. What should a society do towards such unbalanced sex ratios? There are various solutions, some might suggest celibacy, others would prefer female infanticide (which does happen in some societies in the world today !). Others would think the only outlet is that the society should tolerate all manners of moral decadence : prostitution, sex out of wedlock, homosexuality ...etc. Other societies (like most African societies today) would see the most honourable outlet is to allow polygamous marriage as a culturally accepted and socially respected institution. The point that is often misunderstood in the west is that women in other cultures don't necessarily look at polygamy as a sign of women's degradation. For example, many young African brides (whether Christians or Muslims or otherwise), would prefer to marry a married man who has already proved himself to be a responsible husband. Many African wives urge their husbands to get a second wife so that they don't feel lonely. The problem of the unbalanced sex ratios becomes truly problematic at times of war. Native American Indian tribes used to suffer highly unbalanced sex ratios after wartime losses. Women in these tribes, who in fact enjoyed a fairly high status, accepted polygamy as the best protection against indulgence in indecent activities. European settlers, without offering any other alternative, condemned this Indian polygamy as uncivilized.

    After the second world war, there were 7,300,000 more women than men in Germany (3.3 million of them were widows). There were 100 men aged 20 to 30 for every 167 women in that age group. Many of these women needed a man not only as a companion but also as a provider for the household in a time of unprecedented misery and hardship. The soldiers of the victorious Allied Armies exploited these women's vulnerability. Many young girls and widows had liaisons with members of the occupying forces. Many American and British soldiers paid for their pleasures in cigarettes, chocolate, and bread. Children were overjoyed at the gifts these strangers brought. A 10 year old boy on hearing of such gifts from other children wished from all his heart for an 'Englishman' for his mother so that she need not go hungry any longer. We have to ask our own consciences at this point: What is more dignifying to a woman? An accepted and respected second wife as in the native Indians' approach, or a virtual prostitute as in the 'civilised' Allies approach? In other words, what is more dignifying to a woman, the Quranic pre******ion or the theology based on the culture of the Roman Empire?

    The world today possesses more weapons of mass destruction than ever before and the European churches might, sooner or later, be obliged to accept polygamy as the only way out. Father Hillman has thoughtfully recognized this fact," It is quite conceivable that these genocidal techniques (nuclear, biological, chemical..) could produce so drastic an imbalance among the sexes that plural marriage would become a necessary means of survival....Then contrary to previous custom and law, an overriding natural and moral inclination might arise in favour of polygamy. In such a situation, theologians and church leaders would quickly produce weighty reasons and biblical ****s to justify a new conception of marriage"

    It has to be added also that polygamy in Islam is a matter of mutual consent. No one can force a woman to marry a married man. The Bible, on the other hand, sometimes resorts to forcible polygamy. A childless widow must marry her husband's brother, even if he is already married, regardless of her consent (Genesis 38).

    It should be noted that in many Muslim societies today the practice of polygamy is rare since the gap between the numbers of both sexes is not huge. One can, safely, say that the rate of polygamous marriages in the Muslim world is much less than the rate of extramarital affairs in the West. In other words, Men in the Muslim world today are far more strictly monogamous than men in the Western world !

    this right not for female ,in order to save the to whom this baby is atributed.and also the female of multiple partener has high incedance for cancer cirvex"genital organ"&other genital diseases .but male no harmful to him if he has more than wife .
    YES.if a woman's husband die ,she must observe a waiting period of 4 months and 10 days before they remarry. to shows how husband mean for his wife .but Islam gave the widow the chance to remary again .to you know what i mean , read this pragraph.
    Plight of widows

    Because of the fact that the Old Testament recognized no inheritance rights to them, widows were among the most vulnerable of the Jewish population. The male relatives who inherited all of her deceased husband's estate were to provide for her from that estate. However, widows had no way to ensure this provision was carried out and lived on the mercy of others. Therefore, widows were among the lowest classes in ancient Israel and widowhood was considered a symbol of great degradation (Isaiah 54:4). But the plight of a widow in the Biblical tradition extended even beyond her exclusion from her husband's property. According to Genesis 38, a childless widow must marry her husband's brother, even if he is already married, so that he can produce offspring for his dead brother, thus ensuring his brother's name will not die out. The widow's consent to this marriage is not required. The widow is treated as part of her deceased husband's property whose main function is to ensure her husband's posterity. This biblical law is still practiced in today's Israel. The pagan Arabs before Islam had similar practices. The widow was considered a part of her husband's property to be inherited by his male heirs and she was, usually, given in marriage to the deceased man's eldest son from another wife. The Quran scathingly attacked and abolished this degrading custom (4:22).

    Widows and divorced women were so looked down upon in the biblical tradition that the high priest must not marry a widow, a divorced woman, or a prostitute (Leviticus 21:13). In Israel today, a descendent of the Cohen caste (the high priests of the days of the Temple) cannot marry a divorcee, a widow, or a prostitute. In the Jewish legislation, a woman who has been widowed three times with all the three husband's dying of natural causes is considered 'fatal' and forbidden to marry again. The Quran, on the other hand, recognizes neither castes nor fatal persons. Widows and divorcees have the freedom to marry whomever they choose. There is no stigma attached with divorce or widowhood in the Quran (2:231,232, 234, 240).

    you said"The fact that if their husbands divorce them , they must observe a waiting period of 3 months or 3 menstrual periods before remarrying. "that is because she may be get pregnent,but she didn't know as there are some cases of pregnancy the uterus still bleed at the same time of normal menses for 3 monthes (first 3 monthes&that is called in medecin by "hartman's symptom"&it' forbidden to man to marry apregnant ISLAM it's forbidden to marry a pregnant women in order to keep lineage clear.
    about you said moslims &India histroy.
    you are wrong, never moslims do that &if these women used jump into fier to save their honour ,it was easler to say that she is a moslim.if what you said is true why you found moslims in India now,moslim never do sex with dead bodies .all the time try to chang the facts even history.
    who make ashes,Muslims or who came from their countries to rape the earth &honour &rape both male &female .look in what happend in Palastin &in Iraq .you will know who desolate every thing to obtain his needs
    Iwant to show what position of women inIslam
    male or female: ye are members one of another (holy Quran (III 195)
    the first one who believe prophet was a woman om el moamenen "khadija "
    "awoman who lernt the moslims the half of their faith ,she was om el moamenen " Ayesha"
    last instructions of prophet was to men to look after women & to do the best for them .
    women is one of four :
    who one of them you can harm her !?&Islam ordered the man to look after each one of them.
    woman from first years of Islam&she has a great rule &shared in different fields of life , in medicine, politics,teaching,even she shared in their wars .you can find that in Islam history .
    THis our faith &believes .if you want the true about Islam , i invite you to visit this site .

    NB,this article written by .

    Bent EL Hasan, a moslim girl
    التعديل الأخير تم بواسطة : أم المثنى بتاريخ 16-11-2005 الساعة 07:02 PM

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